well im going out on a limb and asking for help... something i dont like doing..

have a cable modem with a static ip
i have set up the connection manually in my setteings
i have xp pro fully updated. the firewall with it is turned off..
i have a linksys nro41router with the latest firware fashed it my self
the correct ports are forwarded on it
motorola sb4200 with the latest firmware that i also flashed myself
i have the latest version of azureus and java
the nat checker on azureus says my ports are ok
web test say my ports are open when azureus is running

it says i am not conectable here
i do get the green light on azureus 95% of the time
and my connections are slow as hell. 1-3k average

although every once in a while it does bump up to 50 up 30 down but that has only happened a few times
nobody else is using bittorrent on my network..

so have i missed anything?? ive been working on this for months

thanks in advance